For me, the difference between good sex and great sex comes from little things... the extra stuff that adds spice. Anytime I have sex, I enjoy myself, but it’s even more enjoyable when my wife talks to me during sex. Sometimes I like her to talk dirty. Other times, I like her to take me into one of her fantasies, or talk about what she wants to do with me. Last time we made love, she told me a great story.
Sofia and I were already making love when I reminded her how much I loved her active imagination. I asked her to tell me a story. She paused for a minute and said she’d be happy to tell me a story… did I want her to make something up? Or tell me a true story? I slowed my strokes and pondered for a moment. There was something arousing about listening to an erotic story of something she’d actually done. I wanted a true story tonight.
She said she could tell me about something that happened a long time ago, before she met me, when she made love up in the lookout of a boat. She said she thought it was a really sexy story, but since it was about her with another man, she wanted me to be sure I was comfortable hearing it. I appreciated her laying it out like that for me. I hesitated, but my curiosity was already piqued. I think she knew that. I thanked her for asking and assured her it was okay. I was all ears.
So Sofia launched into her story:
“It happened a few years ago… I was invited to a party on a friend’s boat called the Lazy Daisy. It was a beautiful boat with three bedrooms, a living room, the galley dining area and the lookout, which was up above everything else. A group of us were in the living room hanging out and having a good time. The music, food and drinks were great.”
“My date, David, and I stepped outside for some evening air and walked around the deck looking for a quiet place to talk. As I leaned on the boat’s railing, gazing over the cityscape across the water, David put his arms around me. He was in a randy mood, and I felt him harden as he cuddled against me. I began to get aroused too. He squeezed me tighter and asked if I’d like to go up to the lookout with him. He said the view was fantastic up there. It sounded like a fun idea.”
“David helped me up onto the first rung of the ladder that led up to the lookout. As I began to climb, the wind caught my dress and blew it up above my waist… and I was wearing a very skimpy thong. I smoothed the skirt back down but the wind kept blowing it up again. David was climbing behind me, and suddenly his lips were brushing against the cheek of my butt. He teased that we might not need to climb all the way to the top, because he was enjoying the view already. We both laughed, and he joined me on my rung of the ladder, pressing his body into me. He caressed me and helped me get my skirt back down into place.”
“We slowly and carefully continued climbing to the top and stepped up into the lookout. It was a clear night and David was right… the view was spectacular. He pulled me into his arms and kissed me. I felt warm and wonderful. I leaned over the railing, looking out over the water and the city lights in the distance. David was behind me, nuzzling his face into my hair. He reached around and cupped my breasts, massaging them as his breath quickened. Then he very gently pulled up the sides of my dress”.
“The cold air tingled but his fingers sliding under my thong were warm. My mind said to resist. After all, there were other people on board. But my body didn’t want him to stop. I opened my legs and let him in. I was already wet from his body pressing against me and his warm breath on the nape of my neck. I reached back and held onto his tight thighs. He sighed, and my hands traveled forward, massaging his groin.”
“He said he wanted to be in me. I was already turned on, and when he whispered that in my ear, I knew I wanted it too. I unzipped his pants and freed his dick, which was rock hard. He moaned at the touch of my hands. I leaned over on the railing, and he pulled my thong aside, exposing my pussy.”
“Very gently, he slid into my moist folds. He moved the tip of his dick up and down along the wetness and my heart started to flutter. It felt like I was a flower opening its petals to receive him. He thrust into me and I closed my eyes, feeling the salty ocean mist kiss my cheeks. He was intense. His passion was fierce and it sent waves of pleasure through me. He gripped me tighter, pulling me back and pushing himself into me again and again. I knew he was going to come right away.”
“He held my hips against him and exploded into me. It was fast and hot. It left me trembling, and for a moment I lost all space and time. The water swirled around me and the stars seemed brighter than ever. It was the first time I ever had sex outdoors, so it was a unique experience. David leaned against me, gasping for breath. I felt beautiful and sexy with him holding me that way.”
“After he recovered, he kissed me tenderly and held me close. We stayed up there in the lookout for a few minutes, catching our breath and basking in the starlight. It was a special night that I will never forget. The End.”
When Sofia finished her story, I realized I was totally turned on. Listening to her talk, I had pictured the events unfolding, and I wanted to hear more. I asked her to show me exactly how she kissed David. Sofia hesitated. Again, she wanted to make sure I was okay with all this, because she didn’t want to continue if it would cause any problem between us. She’s really smart that way, and would never do anything to harm our relationship. I kissed her and looked into her eyes, assuring her I was enjoying it.
So she went with it. She said she’d show me how they kissed, then pulled me to her, kissing me tenderly, while sucking and nibbling on my lips. Suddenly she thrust her tongue deep into my mouth. She took my hand and slid it to her breast. She sucked on my lip some more, then pushed my head to her breast. I sucked on her nipples, first one then the other, and she moaned with pleasure.
There was something so hot about it. Picturing Sofia with another man - and knowing she was all mine now - was unusually erotic. The combination of her story and her beautiful body there in bed with me was very arousing. So I pressed for more. I asked her to tell me again what happened after they kissed. She said they made love doggy style while she leaned over the railing… that the lights on shore were sparkling… and the boat was rocking… and they were rocking right along with it. “Did it feel like this, baby?” I asked, thrusting into her from behind. She gasped at the sudden action. I felt her pussy get wetter as she moaned and kept repeating, “Oh yeah… just like that.”
I whispered that I wanted her to keep going. I wanted her to give me details of exactly what happened next. She could hardly catch her breath, but she continued, telling me how he lifted her into the lookout chair and pulled her dress up over her head. Her breasts were exposed and his eyes lit up at the sight. He told her they were beautiful, and he couldn’t resist them. He greedily sucked a nipple into his mouth like he was a baby. Then his big warm hands caressed her body and he worked his way down to her pussy. She said she was wet and ready for him, and that when he touched her he joked that he’d found a hidden treasure. The boat listed and after they regained their balance, he lifted her legs, hooked them over the arms of the chair, and knelt down in front of her.
“Did he do it like this, baby?” I asked Sofia, as I spread her legs and moved my finger to her clit, rubbing gently. She sighed and said yes, and it felt almost as good as I did. She knew that was what I wanted to hear. She said he dived between her legs and licked her like it was his last meal. I grinned, licking her stomach and moving downward, understanding what she wanted. I thrust my tongue deep into her and savored her like never before. Her whole body was quivering, instantly responding to my touch. She moaned with pleasure. I was getting harder by the minute, and suddenly I couldn’t resist the urge to be inside her. I had to have her, right then. Climbing on top of her, I rubbed the tip of my dick on her clit and slid into her as she gasped for breath, trying to continue her story.
She closed her eyes and said she remembered she was looking at his big cock and thinking she wanted more. So she stood up and pushed him into the chair, and then climbed on top of him and gently slid down onto him. She said she moved real slowly at first, up and down, up and down, teasing him… until he begged her to go faster.
Sofia was lost in her story. For a moment I wondered if she wished she were back there again. Then she whispered that I felt incredibly good to her, and it confirmed she was still right here in the moment with me. It made me even hotter. I prompted her to tell me what happened next, pumping in and out as I held her tight. She said she was feeling so free with the breeze blowing through her hair, riding his dick like she was a cowgirl riding a pony, and loving every minute of it. When he came inside her, she could feel his heat. The boat was rocking and they were rocking each other hard right along with it.
“Like this?” I asked again, rocking into her with all my might. She gasped and said yeah, it was just like that. We were enveloped in a sexual frenzy, and I felt a charge ripple through her pussy and right back up through my dick. Sofia gripped me and squealed, and my body stiffened. Her pussy throbbed with contractions and I climaxed hard. We were in total sync, and I hurtled into it, pushing us both over the top.
Sofia and I laid there together in each other’s arms for a long moment before either of us spoke. Then she softly asked if I was okay. Was I okay with her telling me that story? “Are you kidding?” I answered, “That was one of the best bedtime stories I ever heard.”
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Communicating with your partner how much pleasure they are giving you and how they have satisfied you are key elements for maintaining a long healthy relationship. Most men we’ve talked to say that good sex also means sensitivity, commitment, assertiveness.
Men also love fantasies, all kinds of fantasies, about all kinds of different situations. Many men and women enjoy using a blindfold occasionally in sex. It really makes things feel different. You might want to give that a try. Some fantasies are related to dominance. As long as both partners are willing, this kind of role-playing can add a new dimension to your sex life.
“I think it would be exciting to try some mild dominance and bondage sort of thing... to tie up my partner with handcuffs or maybe rope and to have my way with her for a while. And it might even be exciting to do it the other way around... to give up that power would be very exciting. I'd be very vulnerable, of course. And that could be a big turn-on.”
“Sometimes, I like to take complete control. And I like when she complies.”
Dan and his wife make very creative use of food and ice in their lovemaking. They especially like playing with a scene from their favorite erotic movie...