While it can be hard to imagine at first, sex can get a little boring over time when the same thing is done over and over again. Perhaps you are always hanging out in the missionary position or getting your cowboy on. Whatever you’re doing now, it is best to change it up so you can keep things exciting.
If things are already boring, integrating some new skills, a new attitude, and a few new techniques can make a great deal of difference in bed. When things get better in bed, the relationship as a whole improves.
Get Your Freak On
The following are ten tips that will help you get your freak on in the bedroom:
- While not the kinkiest sex idea, be the initiator. Show your partner how much you want him or her. Let your emotion show through your actions.
- Get a little aggressive by grabbing your partner and kissing him or her. Do this throughout the day when your partner is not expecting it.
- Do a little research to learn the proper oral sex skills because it is a way to get up close and personal, throwing all of your inhibitions out the window. Think of it as a gateway to even more fantastic things.
- Don’t just have sex in the bedroom. Initiate it on the sofa, the kitchen table, or take a drive or walk to a private place where you know you won’t get caught.
- When in foreplay, remember that there is much more down there than just a penis or a vagina. Have some fun with every part.
- Use your hands when going down on a man and the hands can be used on a woman as well. There is nothing wrong with some touching.
- A little BDSM can be a lot of fun. Determine who will be a dominant and who will be a submissive and run with it.
- Use blindfolds because not being able to see enhances the other senses, especially the sense of touch.
- Tie your partner down and do what you will.
- Do a little role playing, such as being your partner’s slave for a day or your partner being yours.
Of course you can also use your imagination and play the games or make the moves that you want to make. Always aim to try something different regardless of how freaky it may seem because it is the kinkiness in your sex life that will serve as a useful tool toward stability in your relationship.
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